First of all ... I love my life. This is the first time in a long time I can really say that I am in a state of being 'happy'. I still have emptiness in my heart as I miss people terribly, but on a daily basis I wake up happy, work on homework happily, go to work happy, have a great social life, become closer and closer each and every day with my best friend and twin sister (Laura) and my dad, get to know my other bestie more and more each day (Mikey),and meet new people all over the place (work, campus, neighbors, farmers market, EVERYWHERE). I feel little to no stress, urgency to get things done, etc. I couldn't ask for more (other than the obvious - seeing friends & fam more). I LOVE MY LIFE.
For those of you thinking and processing any major life change - my only advice (not that you asked lol) take the chance if you think it may better your life. We didn't make our decision to pack up shop, leave our jobs, benefits, family, & friends lightly. It took a lot of stressful conversations and serious doubt, but I can't imagine still being stuck in the funk we were in. I wasn't happy with the social service world (and my place of employment specifically), Mike so badly wanted to return to school for his passion, and so many more reasons.
Updates:
So Mike has been purchasing tools like crazy for his class. It's bittersweet as they cost a ridiculously large amount of money, but the great thing is these are quality tools he will have for life. I see him get frustrated when he has to go back out to purchase yet another round of tools, but after work when we get to see each other again he explains what he's gotten and there is almost always a smile on his face. I interpret that as - he likes it ;)
Sooo I may be joining the Student Senate at Southeast Technical College. Sort of excited about it. I'm not quite sure I'll bring about change or make any big impact, but I am excited to do something I haven't done. Well there was that one time in the 10th grade when I was a bump on a log in Student Council, but meh. Not sure I should count that lol.
I am also looking into Lasik. AHHH, I know, crazy. Lasers in my eyes. Weird. But anyone who knows me knows I've desperately wanted this surgery for a long while. Northsuburban Eye Specialists offer free evaluations and their total cost includes post op care and a lifetime enhancement guarantee. Soooooo hopefully I can look forward to doing that next summer. Curious, any thoughts on getting Lasik? I'm open to good and bad comments.
The other fun thing happening is what I put on my Facebook status yesterday. We were approached by a college marketing rep and asked to give our dating story. She said she is always looking to write about couples that are in college together - how they met, how they wound up at the same college together, what we are studying, etc. She also asked if she could bring along a reporter from The Republican Eagle (Red Wing's local paper). We are so flattered and excited to do it. We think our story is interesting, but we are very surprised anyone else thinks its interesting :)
Cake pop update:
Lol it's been a long time since I've made my first cake pop and I really need to get in some practice now that I have my very own kitchen. My plan is to try making some 'amp' cake pops. I was hoping to make some amp shaped cake pops for Mike's former boss/boss's wife, but didn't get the chance to. So the new plan is to make a bunch tomorrow morning (Saturday) and have them ready for dinner with new friends - Mike's friend/classmate who loves guitars/amps/music as much as he does!! I cannot wait to try them out, I really hope they look good and taste yummy.
Finally little bit of info....I am about to explode because I have the most fun surprise for two friends of ours that I orderd from BIC APP/Norwood (my new place of employment) - http://norwood.com/. I will totally post pictures what it is after we've given them the surprise!! That is all. ;)
THANKS FOR READING FRIENDS!!!
XOXO